Every once in a while, I'm surprised by someone I think I know fairly well. And, what usually surprises me is their attitude about pets, or animals, in general.
My surprise comes when the person reveals a belief that animals are merely on the planet for our use or enjoyment and are certainly "disposable" or "replaceable," if need be.
I encountered such a person a couple of weeks ago, just after I read a blog by Dr. Nancy Kay (author of Speaking for Spot). Dr. Kay's blog was about the new AVMA Guidelines for Responsible Pet Ownership. While I was reading the blog, I found my inner cynic awakening.
"Gee, aren't we past the time when people who live with pets need to be reminded how to treat them?" I asked myself.
Then, I heard my acquaintance tell another friend that she had packed her dogs off to the pound because she no longer had the energy to deal with them. They had become, in her words, "liabilities, rather than assets."
Well, apparently we do need some Guidelines!
I know these Guidelines are enforceable, but, if everyone considering the adoption of a pet or currently living with a pet would abide by them, we'd have fewer animals in shelters, veterinarians who could afford to stay in business, and pet parents who would survive their pets guilt and regret free.
Guidelines include:
- Committing to the relationship for the entire life of the pet(s).
- Establishing and maintaining a veterinarian-client-patient relationship.
- Recognizing declines in the pet(s) quality of life and making decisions in consultation with a veterinarian regarding appropriate end-of-life care (e.g. palliative care, hospice, euthanasia).
Check out the entire list of Guidelines on the AVMA website.
And, then let us know what you think about them. Based on your experiences, what would you add?
--Laurel





Q: I find I'm having a problem with how to react to my neighbors ailing dog. Her dog has been ill for quite some time and has not had a good "quality of life". Now my neighbor and her husband are going on a three week vacation to Europe. Their grown son will watch their dog for them while they are gone, but he has a young dog of his own which stresses the sick one. My neighbor can't come to grips with euthansia. She says she is waiting for her dog to die naturally. From my own personal experience, we took a week long vacation when I knew that my dog was ailing and wouldn't be around much longer. In retrospect, I resent and regret that we took that vacation at that time.
I don't know what to say to her when she talks about her plans, as I don't agree with how she is handling things. However, she has not asked for my advice and I know it is strictly her business. How can I keep from saying the wrong thing?? ---
willthepill, CO